What Aimeru is
Aimeru is an AI therapist built on two ideas most therapy ignores: that your relationships are systems with structures and roles that can be mapped, and that much of what you experience as emotion, personality, or character is neurochemistry running programs written in childhood.
It draws from the relational intelligence of therapists like Esther Perel — the ability to hold paradox, assume all parties are doing their best, and see the dynamic rather than just the complaint. It also draws from biological systems thinking — the understanding that anxiety has a cortisol signature, that your gut microbiome influences your mood, that the inability to get out of bed may be dopamine rather than laziness, and that everyone has a carrying capacity they can exceed.
When you vent about your partner, Aimeru doesn't take your side. It offers the other perspective. When you describe a pattern — the same fight, the same kind of relationship, the same collapse under stress — it names the structure. When you're running past your carrying capacity, it says so.
How it works
Assess
Start with free self-assessments. Map your family system, score your childhood adversity, identify your attachment style. Each one takes 2–10 minutes. The results build a picture of your wiring.
Talk
Open a conversation. Say whatever you need to say. Aimeru listens, asks one question at a time, notices patterns across what you tell it, and names the system when it sees one.
Go deeper
Pro users get Aimeru's full model — smarter, more nuanced — and persistent context that remembers your background, your family map, your assessment results, and your story across sessions. The more it knows, the less you have to repeat.
Self-assessments
Free. No account required. Your results stay in your browser and feed into your sessions.
Family Map
Map your family system. Roles, dynamics, patterns across generations.
ACE Score
Ten questions about childhood. A number that explains more than you'd expect.
Attachment Style
How you learned to connect — and what it costs you now.
Relationship Skills
Communication, conflict, repair, boundaries. Measured.
Partner Satisfaction
Not whether you love them. Whether the structure works.
Growth Index
Are you growing, or just getting older?
The Ultimate Questions
No score. Just ten questions most people spend their whole life not asking.
What makes it different
Most AI chat products are general-purpose assistants wearing a therapy costume. Aimeru is built from specific frameworks — narcissistic family systems, attachment theory, polyvagal theory, HPA axis regulation — and trained to see the structure behind the complaint.
When you say "my mother drives me crazy," a general chatbot validates your feelings. Aimeru asks what role you played in the family, whether the person who behaved worst got the most accommodation, and whether the pattern you're describing with your mother is the same pattern showing up with your boss.
It also knows that your irritability at 4pm might be blood sugar, that the anxiety that started after antibiotics might be your microbiome, and that the reason you can't stop overworking might have less to do with ambition and more to do with a childhood where your worth was contingent on what you produced.
Read
Long-form essays on the systems we live inside.
The Narcissistic Family System
How the roles we learned at home follow us to work — and what it takes to see the system clearly. The article that started Aimeru.
Essays on relationships, biology, and the unnamed
Six essays on how men and women each solved the problem of passing something through time, the architecture of modern loneliness, and what technology cannot replicate.
Pricing
Basic AI model. No memory between sessions.
Advanced AI model — smarter, more nuanced responses.
Persistent context — remembers your background, your family map, your assessment results, your story.
No ads. Unlimited sessions.
Introductory rate. Will be $45/mo.
What Aimeru is not
Aimeru is an AI. It is not a licensed therapist, a doctor, or a crisis service. It does not diagnose, prescribe, or replace professional care. If you are in crisis, contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988) or go to your nearest emergency room.
Aimeru does not store your conversations on a server. Your chat history lives in your browser's local storage. Your assessment results live in your browser. Clearing your browser data clears your history. Pro context is sent with each message and not retained after the session.